Sunday, September 21, 2014

Stressed Beyond Belief

Stressed. Anxious. Worried. Not enough time. Not enough energy. Not enough...

Just fill in the blank with what you consider to be your maxim of stress.

A laughable phrase that I often share to lighten the mood of the stressed out type-A's in my life is "Why do today what you can put off 'til tomorrow!" A far cry from the age-old, "Why put off 'til tomorrow what you can do today!"

In this microwave world of immediacy, there's this problem; you CAN'T do everything today. Deadlines. Demands. Delusional thinking that it all must be done right now. The pressure builds until the crockpot of our body, mind, and emotions eventually implode.

Why?

Because we live in a world where as one guy said, "Life is like Twitter, we show the best and hide the rest!" In an effort to compete and comply with the world's demands we build our own little castles made of sand only to see them decimated under the weight of such fragile self-efficacy.

So what causes the stress that is ripping apart the fabric of human design? It is ultimately attached to a lack of control. Recognizing our own inabilities. Experiencing the frustrations of unmet expectations by others. Feeling the vulnerability caused by the strain of our own environments.

And where do we find the remedy for dealing with such demands of worry, stress, and anxiety? In short, Jesus. But we all know it's easier said than done when high levels of stress sabotage what we know to be true; when we are stressed beyond belief.

Change what you can; accept what you can't. How well we adapt to the various seasons of life will be the seed bearing the fruit of making us better or bitter.

See the immediate in light of the ultimate. Recognize that our decisions in these seasons of life will reflect foolishness or maturity; a progression of worry or peace.

Remember the Master is always displaying a masterpiece. These moments of stress are really pivotal moments to lean more directly into the Potter's wheel of refining a complexion of faith in us.

Jesus made these principles clear in the Sermon on the Mount as He spoke to the crowd by the Sea of Galilee (Matthew 6:25-33). Not even the wisest and richest in the world can make guarantees and provisions like that of the Lord. Rightly seeking the kingdom of God will put everything else in perspective; helping us to see that worrying only distracts us from seeing the change Christ intends to make in us.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

I really enjoyed reading this. I have got to share it, there is so much truth in your blog. I feel like this everyday. Thank you for sharing!!!!