Keeping Score

My son is playing soccer but since he's in the youngest age division we aren't supposed to keep score. Yet I can't help but press the button on the scoreboard of my mind every time they score a goal. There just seems to be something intrinsic about tallying the score.

Each time my son's team scores I find myself celebrating inwardly or aloud, high-fiving the players and telling them "Good job!" And every time the opposing team scores I find myself becoming enraged at their lack of defense and intensity.

Then I'm forced to remember, "They're four!"

It's so easy to keep score in the daily routines of our life. Those moments we feel a win coming our way because of our good deeds, the sacrifices we make, and the moral aptitudes we display for others to consider our greatness.

But the real test comes when others violate the rules of the game. When someone breaks the rules by lying, cheating, betraying, stealing, gossiping, and so on. They've done that one thing that has sparked unforgettable and unforgivable anger and resentment. We've tallied the score and feel defeat knocking on the door.

Now we're forced to continue playing by the rules or consider bending what we know to be right to catch up, tie the score, and move ahead. All because we've been trained to keep score!

Keeping score can be exhausting. If we're constantly counting the punches thrown by others we will eventually feel overwhelmed by the countless opponents demanding our attention. 

Rather than experiencing the frustration of tallying the score, we must learn to find the ultimate victory in showing mercy (James 2:13).